Hunting for "Mola-Mola" Sun Fish in Nusa Penida, Bali

"Mola-Mola" Sun Fish can be seen in Nusa Penida, Bali mostly during July - end October, so people say. Nusa Penida, located in off the southeastern corner of Bali, is about one hour boat ride from Sanur Beach. This dive site is famous for its beauty, and the "Mola-Mola" Sun Fish.. but be careful of the strong current and be ready to dive in a 21 degrees water temperature.

Our group went to Crystal Bay, where people usually see the Mola-Mola. This fhuge fish, up to 4 meters diameter, has weird shape. It usually lives in 300 meters depth, but during the season, it goes up to 30 - 40 meters to get cleaned. We had 2 dives here, the visibility was around 20 - 25 meters. The reef life was beautiful -- the corals, the fish, it felt like I walked in a garden... very nice. We dove down to 30 meters... and the dive master, Nicky, even dove deeper, tried to find the "Mola-Mola", but we weren't lucky :(.

Second attempt was also unsuccessful. "Where's it???", I asked. Maybe the Mola-Mola was too shy, so it was hiding somewhere.... :( Damnnnnn!!

Ah well... it means that I have to come back next time! Even though there was no Mola-Mola, I had great dives there. Unicorn fish, titan, trigger fish, moray eels and blue ribbon eel were some of the fish that I saw apart from the "usual suspects" - moray idols, angel fish, butterfly fish, surgeon fish, etc. The blue ribbon eel was pretty impressive. It looked tiny and cute with its fluorescent blue color and yellow on the mouth part, yet dangerous at the same time. Ouch!


Third dive, we dove in a dive site called Toya Pakeh. There was a little cave in which we could go in. My first cave dive ;). When we're inside the cave, we could actually ascend to breath some fresh air. Several bats living there. Interesting, eh? We took some pictures there before continuing our journey underwater. Due to the strong current, we had difficulties to get out of the cave. My goodness.... it was really hard. I tried to swim as fast as I could, but the current kept on pushing me back. My buddy also had a hard time. She got carried several meters back and hit the walls of the cave. Both of us are skinny, so it's pretty easy to get carried away by the strong current! :P hehehe.. When I finally got out of the cave, my buddy was still inside with the dive master. She was still struggling. And guess what, even us, who were waiting at the mouth of the cave, had to hold on to rocks to be able to stay at the same spot! Geez!!


So, that was the last dive of the day. Pretty interesting. We dove around 45 minutes, swimming around til suddenly in one spot the temperature dropped. It was pretty chill. If 20 degrees was already cold for me, I couldn't imagine diving in winter time... must be freezing like hell!!!

Anyway, my dive trip in Bali was lovely. Bali certainly has the natural beauty, not only the beaches, but also the life hidden beneath the deep blue water. One can enjoy varied fish species, colorful hard and soft coral species, walls as well as shipwrecks. And, if you're lucky, you might bump into "Mola-Mola" the Giant Sun Fish! ;) I'll keep my fingers crossed for you... :)


note: the "Mola-Mola" picture was taken by Coppertane.

Wreck, Muck and Night Dives in Tulamben, Bali

Mid August is a popular season to go to Bali, the Island of Gods, as we called it. (Bali is in Indonesia, by the way... in case you don't know) :)

Why? For party animals, there are a lot of big parties going on in the week of 17th, because August 17th is Indonesian Independence Day. A lot of big clubs, named the Double Six, Ku De Ta, the Ocean Beach Club, etc throw parties presenting big DJs, international and the top notch Indonesian DJs. But this time, I decided to go to Bali not for partying.... instead I went scuba-diving! Wooohoooo...

I went with a group of divers organized by Bali Marine Sports . First day, we went to Tulamben. It took us 2.5 hours drive from Kuta/Seminyak. The most popular dive site in Tulamben is the USS LIBERTY wreck. It's a 120 meter long shipwreck from the US World War II. Back in those days, in 1942, the ship was supposed to cross the Lombok Strait from Australia to The Philippines, but it was torpedoed by the Japanese submarine.

In 1963, the Gunung Agung volcano was erupted and it pushed the wreck to its current location -- 30 meters from the Tulamben shore. Divers can enjoy the beauty of this huge wreck and the reef life starting from 2.5 meters down to 29 meters.

Since it's a popular dive site and a high season, there were a lot of divers diving when we were there. Too many, I would say. In the low season, people said that we could see a school of barracudas, jackfish, etc. Lots of big fish as well. But, my first dive in this wreck wasn't that amazing. Probably the divers scared the fish away. I "only" saw the usual suspects: numbers of bumphead fish -- big ones :), moray idols, batfish, goat fish, numbers of lion fish (also big ones... gosh they're pretty!), parrotfish, etc.

Unsatisfied of our first dive in the wreck, we moved to Seraya for the second and third dives. Seraya is located about 5 minutes drive from the Liberty site wreck. It's a perfect dive site for those who are into underwater photography and not many people know about this new site, which is great ;). From my previous (and limited) diving experiences, I didn't really enjoy muck diving as I barely could see those tiny animals hiding in the sand (yes, my eyes weren't attracted to those tiny creatures, I was more into big fish :p...).

Having said that, the dives in Seraya has changed my point of view. Muck dive is very interesting as one can see many different types of shrimps and other tiny little colorful creatures underwater! It has openened my eyes that shrimps were not just shrimps... there are different types of them and all of them are very unique and colorful. Nice!!
I was amazed to see harlequeen, mantis, nudibranch, etc. They're amazingly cute... love 'em! And oh, I finally saw morray eels! Gosh, they looked evilish!!
I had a great time in Seraya, even though the water was getting colder on the third dive. Even my dive master was shivering!! :D
The water was vey clear, too... the visibility was around 20 - 25 meters.

It was getting dark and it's supposed to be full moon. I remember my friend once suggested to do the night dive at the Liberty Wreck in Tulamben in full moon. So, I thought, "Why not doing it now since I'm already here anyway?" I asked the dive master whether it was possible to go back to the wreck and do the night dive. He said, "Sure!" Ahhh.. YESSS!!! HIGH FIVE!!! :D

Walking down to the shore nervously, I remember the anxiety of my first night dive experience in which I didn't really enjoy. It was 7.30pm already and yes, it was full moon. I said to the dive master, "Bli (that's how we call a Balinesse guy. It means: brother), would you please hold my hand when we dive later coz I'm a bit scared" :D hihihi... He was just nodding.

And guess what, the night dive was amazing!!! The visibility was around 25 - 30 meters, it was very clear. There were not many divers, I reckoned there were only 7 divers, including me and the dive master in that site. It was very quiet.. a bit scary, but the beauty of the underwater reef life at night made me overwhelmed. Now I know why people love night dive! The corals look more colorful and bright. One can see night creatures in which one can't see on the day time. Those shrimps, lobsters, octopus, etc are wide awake and walking around lively. So nice. I also saw lots of big bumperhead fish sleeping... :)) and in one of the spots, there was a bluespotted sting ray laying and his eyes were shining so bright, too!

And finally, I saw three stone fish!!! Huurraayyy... Every time I see pictures of stone fish in fish books, I always wonder when will I see them. And finally, I saw not only one, but three or four of them! They were hiding under a coral. I didn't notice them if the dive master didn't tell me. .

We dove down to 25 meters depth for about 45 minutes. It wasn't too dark that night, probably because of the full moon ;) and the wreck looked amazing with the moonlight shining from above. It was indeed the best dive of the day... :)

Seeing Feather Starfish in Tioman Island, Malaysia

Have you seen a feather starfish swimming elegantly under the sea? I felt lucky to have a chance seeing it! Yayyy… At first I thought it was a plant, but my dive master said that it’s actually a fish. It swam from one spot to another, “flying” beautifully like a feather in Renggis, one of the dive sites in Tioman Island, Malaysia

My July’s dive trip went a bit unexpected. Leaving from Singapore on Friday at 7pm by bus, I didn’t expect that it would be such a long and a pain in the arse (excuse my words) journey. The bus reached Mersing at about midnight, but we had to wait for the tide almost for an hour. So, there we were… a bunch of tired divers, scattered around the waiting room of a small jetty station in the middle of the night, hoping that we could hop on the boat as soon as possible. I didn’t even have the appetite to joke around. I just wanted to get to the resort then sleep… But, the pain hasn’t ended yet. Wait until you saw what kind of boat that we ride in. It wasn’t a speed boat… instead, it was a slow and old boat in which you could smell the fume once you get in. Plus the roaring sound of the machine that was so noisy making you almost impossible to sleep, unless you turned on your ipod to the maximum volume. Perfect, I thought.

I stayed at the bow of the boat. There were several mattresses for passengers to crash in. Those mattresses looked like a barrack for soldiers. It was far from the image of a dream holiday trip… but I think I have to experience it at least once in my life, so that I wouldn’t take it for granted next time I go on holidays. All those luxury, clean and easy transportations aren’t always there! Hee hee.. “It’s a suicide dive trip”, as a friend said a few days before the trip. Still we did it, anyway.

The trip from Mersing to Tioman Island usually takes around 2.5 hours on speed boat, but our group reached the Island Reef Resort at 4am something. So, one could imagine how slow the boat was, eh? It took us 3.5 to 4 hours instead! *sigh*. I crashed in to bed right away as we all had to wake up at 8am for breakfast and am not a big fan of waking up early in the morning…especially not when I just go to bed at 4.30am!

As I was doing the PADI’s advanced open water dive course, there were several dives that I had to do: boat dive, underwater navigation, deep dive, drift dive and night dive. Plus, one leisure dive as a start.

If you asked me, “Which one was the most interesting part of doing the advanced dive course?”. Then I would say, “Night dive”. It was a hell of different experience! Everything was dark (yeah, of course! Daaa…) and pitched black… what we saw was only the light from the torch. Too bad the visibility wasn’t that good in the Genting House Reef site, so it was even harder to observe the reef life. There were some red dots shining from the corals… was wondering what they were. Apparently, there were the shrimps’ eyes!!! Amazing, eh? It reminded me of cats’ eyes that shine in the night time. Apart from observing those shrimps, I didn’t really see that much animals down there. I was so nervous that I would be separated from my buddy. So, my eyes were fixed looking at her from behind! Hahahaha… It didn’t feel comfortable at all. The darkness, the unclear water, the dim of the torch -- all these stuff made me anxious.

Swimming around in the 6 meters depth with a torch on my hand, I stopped for a while to look up. And I smiled. Seeing the moonlight from underwater made me overwhelmed. Somehow I felt secured and warm right away. Then suddenly, I knew that everything would be fine. I smiled again, took a deep breath from my regulator then swam away… It was kinda romantic to see the moon from down there… :) Really. Loved it.

It was actually the night dive that made me taking this course, but after doing it, I knew that day dive was so much enjoyable…despite the romantic moonlight, of course. Well, at least for me. Maybe it’s just not my cup of tea…

The deep dive was held in a site called Sawadee Wreck. We dove to 30 meters depth and the instructor asked us to write down our full name backwards. He counted it using the stop-watch and compared it to the result when we did it earlier on the boat. The exercise was to check whether one of us got narcosis. Apparently, there was one girl who was failed! She couldn’t spell her name right and was giggling instead! Oh dear…Later we found out that she had a few beers the night before. Don’t drink and dive!!
There were a school of baby barracudas, several lion fish and the other usual suspects around the wreck. I didn't really see something special apart from the feather starfish on this dive trip, however, the most important thing is that now I can dive up to 40 meters and try another night dives! Who knows I might like it next time... ;)

In terms of scenery, the Genting Beach in Tioman Island isn't that pretty. But, there's something special about this place. In one of the food stalls, there is one restaurant selling special Roti Prata called Roti Bom. It's a roti prata mixed with condensed milk and we eat it with curry sauce. Sounds weird? It does, but don't say no until you try it!!! It's really yummmmyyyyyy... :)

I even wanted to run back to the restaurant to buy some more of this yummy food, but the boat had to board soon... and one didn't want to be left behind alone in the island!!!

Don't Judge the Book by Its Cover

We know that life works in a mysterious way.
I believe that every time we meet a person, we might have to learn something from her/him.
And here what I've learned for the past few months.

I do believe in the "law of nature". I mean, if you do something good to the nature, then you'll get it back, somehow. And my last experience taught me that we shouldn't look down on people. We shouldn't underestimate them.
I know the theory pretty well, but subconsciously, I still do that sometimes.
I didn't notice it until someone did the same thing to me. And believe me, it wasn't a pleasant thing.

In the country where I come from, we have a saying that: "The smarter you are, the more down to earth you should be". I know it works the other way around in other countries. In some of the Western countries, I notice that if you're smart, then you should show it to the world. Well, each country has its own culture, right?
I can't really tell which one suits best. I think it depends on the person.
As for me, I feel more comfortable for just being calm and cool... :) ;)

Anyway, back to the lesson that I've just learned. Firstly, it becomes clear to me that I shouldn't judge people if I didn't know them very well. If one don't really know the person yet, why should one judge them?
Secondly, I shouldn't underestimate people. In life, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to notice that each person has different interests with the others. So, I should respect and appreciate other people's interests.

"Don't judge the book by its cover", it's probably the best way to say it. I remember when I was a kid, I had two childhood friends. They're the sons of my Mom's bestfriend. These two boys are brothers. The elder one was very naughty and hyperactive. The younger one was extremely calm, he barely talked. Both of them were very smart. The elder one used to tease me a lot and he wouldn't stop until I cried. Very naughty, indeed... but I liked to play with him because he was so lively and full of surprises. On the other hand, I didn't really enjoy playing with the younger one, because he was so quiet. If he came along with his Mom without his elder brother, I didn't even know what to do or what to say. So, I didn't really bother to talk to him.

Anyway, years gone by... the elder brother had to go to the United States to study. And the younger brother sometimes still came to my house with his mom. One day, I put an effort to start a conversation with him. And guess what.... he appeared to be nice and quite talkative! We could talk about everything and he could even laugh out loud. Something that I never saw before! Even his Mom was quite surprised that his younger son could chat, joke around and laugh out loud like that! :D So, since then, everytime he came by with his Mom, we always spent hours chatting, discussing, etc. I enjoyed talking to him as he's very knowledgeable. We became good friends until he left for Japan to work there.
So, I've made a mistake. I judged the book by its cover. My childhood friend whom I thought was quiet, too nerdy and as silent as a rock, appeared to be quite chatty and interesting.

And I should probably remind myself of this story every time I meet new people... A thin book doesn't necessarily have a shallow content...

The Second Day of Scuba-Diving in Perhentian Islands, Malaysia: the Eerie Vietnamese Wreck

Waking up at 7 o’clock in the morning, I was happy to see my breakfast menu: vegetarian roti prata! Yayyy!! What a yummy (yet, big) breakfast! Hahaha… I finished my big breakfast meal realizing that it’s going to be a long day today.. one needed to be fit to be able to greet those amazing creature down there!

First dive was to a site called Terumbu Tiga or Tiger Rock as its known in English. It is probably considered as one of the best dive sites in the Perhentian Islands. The big boulder formations and canyons create some impressive areas for divers to swim through… My dive master dragged me to swim in between those canyons… at first, I wasn’t so confident of my buoyancy skills, but I followed him instead… and trust me, it was so damn cool! There was only a narrow gap for us to swim… I was so happy that I managed to pass the narrow gap, until I got panic coz I felt my fins hit something! I was so scared that I would hit a beautiful coral, but apparently it was Kenneth, another Singaporean diver who followed us. Ffifiiiiuuuhh…

I dove up to 18 meters deep and the temperature was 29 degrees Celcius. My buoyancy and hovering skills got better and I felt more relaxed as well. I kept on sinking though since I used 3 kg of weight belt, then in the middle of the dive, my dive master took 1 of them, so I only had 2 kg. I stopped sinking immediately. Hehehe.. :)

On this site, I saw a blue spotted stingray, butterfly fish, puffer fish, angel fish,.. in which I love so much… there were a number of them.. big ones, too! So pretty… :) .. then, a black & white lion fish, a school of fusilier (the ones with yellow dot on the tail and the black and white one with funny tail, in which I don’t know the name.. hahaha..).

Kenneth, the Singaporean diver and Dirk, the German diver, played with anemonefish. The corals where they’re hiding looked so soft and gummy like a jelly. I wanted to touch it, but decided not to. It’s better not to disturb the nature ;) … Later in the day I found out that my room mate fell off on that similar corals and her thighs were full of red spot bumps! It felt itchy, she said. Whoooppss… Apparently those innocent-jelly-looking-corals are quite fierce, eh?

The second dive was at Tukong Laut or known as the Temple of the Sea. People said that it is the best dive site in the island. It took us 30 minutes by boat to get to this site. Barracuda and tuna are often spotted here with large schools of snappers and fusiliers sweeping in and out of the formations. I was almost jumping around (but I couldn’t, of course) to realize that I was actually swam in the middle of schools of trevally fish! Yellow and black ones… there were hundreds of them! Wowwww!! Amazing… amazing.. amazing!! What a wonderful feeling… I tried to catch one of them, but he knew and he ran away…. Hihihi… I felt like flying in the underwater sea… hmmm… marvelous!


There were parrot fish biting some corals, a couple of angelfish swimming happily together and eating something (I don’t know what they’re eating, actually… hahaha..), a turtle swimming elegantly in which all the divers who had camera tried to capture him, a big bumphead, puffer fish, long banner fish (again), and of course anemone fish (yes, they’re everywhere!). And the highlight of the day was… I saw a baby white tip shark!!! Yayyy… it was hiding under a rock.. My dive master told me to touch it, but of course I wouldn’t do that (apart from my fear, I just didn’t want to touch anything under the sea).

The visibility was up to 20 meters and I dove 15 meters deep for almost an hour. Nice… I didn’t feel like going back to the boat! Hahaha… There were just so many things to see down there… oh… so beautiful… It’s amazing how God creates the world. He creates so many creatures.. being down there makes me realize the beauty of the world we live in…

I started to enjoy diving more and more… and still couldn’t forget those big and colorful angelfish swimming in front of me as if I was one of them… I was so happy! :)

The third dive of the day, we went to Vietnamese Wreck, 45 minutes by boat from the island. It was located on the southwest coast of Perhentian Kecil. This Vietnamese boat sank in 1976 while being towed to Kuala Besut for repairs. Too bad my last dive wasn't that fun. The visibility was very bad (only 2 meters!) due to the strong current. I hardly saw anything! It was pretty eerie down there and the water was a bit cold, too. Apparently, there were a lot of fish living in the wreck, but we needed a torch, though. My dive master gave me his torch, but it was a bit useless as I didn't really have the gut to come closer to the wreck! Hahaha... I was afraid that I couldn't control my buoyancy that I might hit the ship **lol**


Despite the difficulty, however, I managed to see 2 big puffer fish... and.. the highlight of this Vietnamese wreck (for me) was the giant trevally. It was big, it has yellow color and it swam very fast. That fish even shocked me because it was swimming around nearby my legs, while I wasn't aware of it! One of the divers in my group said that the giant trevally was hunting for food. Woohooo... scaryyyyy.... I didn't know that fish became dangerous in the night time. When we were down there, it was almost 6pm, so probably he was already hungry. Time to hunt for food! Whooopsssieee..

My dive master said that we actually swam the whole round of the wreck, but I didn't feel like we did it. I was so scared I might lose my buddy, so I always swam near him, either beside or behind him. Didn't dare to swim further... I realized that this third dive was pretty dangerous. We also went down up to almost 23 meters depth and I felt the difference... it was harder to breath... My dive master decided to abort the dive after 29 minutes, because he said that it was useless as we hardly see anything anyway. I agreed with him even though I still had over 80 bars in my tank. But hey, it doesn't worth the risk, eh? During the dive, I was so damn scared that I might bump into a nurse shark since I could only see a thing that is only 2 meters away from me! OMG.... that would be the least thing I wanted to happen on this trip!

The whole journey was good. The dive was fun. I didn't really like the resort, though, so I wouldn't recommend it for those who want to have a pleasant and comfortable hotel/resort. I think it was more for a backpacker, but at least the toilet/bathroom was clean and quite spacious considering the space of the bedroom itself. The resort was called "Alu-Alu Diver" with a dive shop next to it. It was located at the beach front with white sandy beach and several boats that were always ready to take the divers to the dive sites. The food was ok, funny that they always gave me eggs because I'm a vegetarian. Couldn't they think of something else? I wonder... hahaha...

Dive trip is about diving, eating, meeting new friends and having a good time. During this trip, I ate more than I usually do. Breakfast - dive 1 - snacking - dive 2 - lunch - dive 3 - snacking - dinner. And.. what kind of snacking did I have? CUP NOODLES! Hahahhaa...

It was a pretty interesting trip as I went with a big group consists of 50 divers. Almost 98% was Singaporeans. I met nice people during this trip, but sometimes I didn't get the Singaporean jokes, for me it's not funny. Ah well, different culture has different sense of humor, I guess. Or maybe I was just too tired to pick up the Singlish! Hahaha...


I had a lot of fun on this dive trip. In total, the 3 days and 2 nights (Friday to Monday) trip costs me 500 S$, includes the accommodation and meals for 2 nights and transportation from and back to Singapore. The 10 hours journey by bus plus another 30 minutes by boat were really worth it.

Ok, since this post is about diving, I might as well share some tips that I got from my diving friends to improve my diving skills... hehe... I just wanted to share it with you, who knows it comes handy for you, too :)
  • Don't "cycle" -- they teased me a lot because I was 'cycling' instead of 'diving', they said.
  • To descend, exhale until we have no more breath -- this will be useful if we want to get closer to the object
  • To ascend, inhale, hold our breath, then we'll go up a bit. If this is not enough and we're still sinking, then press the inflator to add some air to the BCD
  • Try not to move our feet when it's not necessary. Thus, we will save a lot of air.
  • Relax :)
Hopefully I dive better next time. I just need to dive more often to polish my buoyancy and hovering skills. But one thing I know, I enjoy diving and can't wait until my next trip! Yaayyyy!!!

Scuba-Diving or Scuba-Cycling?

Where can you go for scuba-diving in Singapore? The answer is nowhere. This country has no sites to offer for scuba-divers. Am sorry to say. Hehehe.. Yet, there are some islands in the neighboring countries (Indonesia, Thailand and Malaysia) that one can visit for a weekend trip.
The nearest one is to go to Malaysia where it has several islands for divers to enjoy the beauty of the underwater sea.

And for this trip, I decided to go to Perhentian Islands in Malaysia. Some other islands, such as Tioman Island, Aur Island and Redang Island are nearer from Singapore, but I heard from several sources that Perhentian Islands is a better choice for scuba-diving. So.. Perhentian Islands, here I come! :)


Perhentian Islands is located in the northeastern coast of Malaysia in the South China Sea. It consists of two islands, which are Perhentian Besar (in Malay language, Besar means Big) and Perhentian Kecil (Kecil means Small). Both surrounded by white sandy beaches, palm trees and beautiful white rocks. The islands itself is pretty quiet, not too touristy. There are some resorts for tourists to stay, but please, don't expect a luxurious one. The resorts here are pretty standard.


Leaving from Singapore around 8pm, the whole journey took almost 9 hours by bus! But I slept all the way.. hehehe… The first stop was at the Singapore custom, then we went over the bridge to the Malaysia custom where we had to change our bus and used a local bus instead. For some political reasons, Malaysia doesn’t allow Singapore buses to enter their country and vice versa. As a passenger, I noticed a big difference between Singapore and Malaysia busses. Singapore’s bus was much nicer and cozier, while Malaysia’s bus was a bit tacky with shocking pink and lacey curtains hanging on the window. Hihihi…

Oh, as soon as we entered Malaysia territory, I also noticed a difference in terms of cleanliness. The toilet. While we’re still in Singapore custom, the toilet was clean, tidy, completed with toilet paper and auto flush. Then, when we got into Malaysia, at the second stop where we had our late supper, I had to go to the toilet again… and OMG, the toilet was just like the ones in a suburb area of Indonesia! It was smelly, dirty, wet and.. no toilet paper, of course! Yuck. I got so used to the cleanliness of Singapore’s toilets, so seeing this dirty toilet, I couldn’t help myself not to frown and hold my breath as long as I could. *sigh*

The restaurant consists of several food stalls serving different types of food, such as fried noodles, nasi lemak, chicken porridge, roti prata, etc. The place was packed with people. I guess it was the main restaurant for all buses going to Malaysia, because it seems that every bus stops there for a bite.

The bus arrived at Kuala Besut jetty in the morning. We had breakfast there. I tried to communicate with the locals, but couldn’t understand anything they said. It seems that they have their own dialects. I was lost. They also didn’t really speak English. Ah well…I just pointed out rice, egg and some vegetables, then she grabbed a calculator, pressed some buttons and showed it to me the price of my breakfast. Hahaha… I guess that works, too ;). Who says we need to be able to master all languages? Universal language works everywhere! :D



We took a boat to Perhentian Islands. The boat was very speedy, I felt like riding a horse! Hahaha…. I’ve never been on such a speedy and bumpy boat like that in my life! My butt was hurting and the girls were all screaming as we jumped up and down… hahaha.. I even worried that my bag would jump off to the sea. Hahaha… it was fun, though.

It was such a beautiful and sunny day. The weather was perfect. Our first dive site was to “Shark Point”. Haven’t been diving for months since I got my PADI Open Water Dive license, I had to remember all the important things about scuba-diving again. It wasn’t that easy, you know! I kept on ascending while I should be descending! Ha!

The site is called “Shark Point” simply because sometimes divers see whale sharks there. Ivan, my buddy and dive master, saw one when he was about to ascend. I didn’t! Damn damn damn!! Nevertheless, I was happy enough to see a long bannerfish. Gosh, it is soooo elegant. I also had a chance to meet and greet with stellate rabbit fish, butterfly fish, angel fish, and.. of course… the famous “Nemo” .. anemone fish ;). I was so surprised to see a big fish popping out of a flower! What the hell was he doing there? :p Playing hide and seek with his friends, perhaps? Hehehe..

The second dive was to “Sugar Wreck”. It took us 45 minutes to get to this site from the island by boat. This was my first wreck dive. As a first timer, I felt excited seeing the huge wreck laid in front of me. But honestly, I couldn’t really figure out the shape as I only saw some parts of it. Hihihi…

Our group swam to an area where it was dark and cold. Suddenly one of the divers lighted up a torch and I was so shocked to realize that we were actually inside the wreck! Waaakkkss… The ship wall was so high and full with fungi… it reminded me of the “Pirates of the Carribean” movie. I grabbed someone’s hand right away because I got so scared! Hahaha.. I didn’t know who he was, but he was the nearest diver next to me. He seemed surprise by my reaction. Hahaha… silly me! Then I recognized him that he’s actually a German diver, Dirk, who was on the same boat earlier. I laughed at him and there were a lot of bubbles popping out from my regulator. He was laughing, too. I think he noticed that I was afraid.. so he kept on swimming next to me. Hihihi…

Outside the wreck, I saw a beautiful red lionfish hiding under a broken wheel. There was a diver trying to take a picture, but since my hovering skills wasn’t good, my fin touched the sand and suddenly it was all sandy. Whooopsss… sorryyyyy!! He must’ve been pissed at me that time… :p hihihi… I ran away right away… kekeke…


The current was pretty strong down there, but the temperature was warm, around 30 degrees Celcius. The visibility was around 15-20 meters. I saw a lot of fish around the wreck. It was amazing. A giant trigger fish with his big white teeth almost popping out of his mouth looked damn scary to me. He has an evil-ish look. At first, I wanted to look at him closer, but then, realizing my poor diving skills, I decided to continue swimming and leave him alone. Hihihi… see ya next time, big teeth! :D

It was such an amazing experience to be underwater. At one point, I was suddenly surrounded by a school of yellow back fusiliers… omigod! It felt like flying with hundreds of fish around me! Splendid… There were a school of sweepers, too… they’re so cute! And oh, I also saw a big puffer fish, baby barracuda and a school of jackfish. Very nice. Seeing those fish in their own habitat really made me happy.

Everyone seemed to be impressed with what we saw in this site. Lots of different fish, good visibility and an impressive wreck. All of us were satisfied. I could tell from their faces :).

My maximum dive today was 17.3 meters… and my buoyancy was still not good. Plus, the way I swam, according to my dive master, was like someone riding a bicycle! “Nila, stop cycling! This is scuba-diving, so keep your feet straight and swim properly, stop cycling using your fins!”, he said. Hahahaha… I realized that instead of trying to keep my buoyancy neutral, I moved my feet a lot as if I’m cycling. Yes, he’s true! Hahaha… silly me! When we got on the boat, another diver teased me, “Nila, where’s your bike?” hihihi… damn. I said, “I left it down there”, pointing at the sea. **lol**

That was the end of my scuba-cycling on the first day in Perhentian Islands. People say, even though you have a scuba-diving license, it doesn’t mean that you will love this sport. Some people do have the license, yet, they never get the hang of it. On my way back to the island, I thought of it. I think I like this sport despite my poor buoyancy and hovering skills… and what I know for sure is.. I want to dive more! :)

Arriving back on the island, cup instant noodles and cold drinks had awaited us. I took one cup and thought that was our dinner. But then… an hour later, the resort’s staff came with a bunch of different meals from the kitchen and placed them on the buffet table. Hahahaha… Oh dear, my stomach was full already!



That night, I slept early as I wanted to wake up fresh the next morning. There would be 3 day dives on the 2nd day. Hopefully I would see many interesting fish… and.. my diving skills would get better! No more scuba-cycling!!! ;)

It’s OK to say “NO”

Living in Singapore, only 1.5 hours away from my hometown, I have many friends coming to visit, almost every week. Either for business, to visit me or ehmm... to shop. Yes, Indonesians love to go shopping here. So, my phone is always busy receiving messages from friends who notify me on their arrival in this Lion City. It’s amazing. My colleagues at work even commented, “You seem to have your friends coming to visit every week, Nila??” I just smiled. It’s true. Some of them, who are not on business trips, politely ask whether they can stay in my place. As for my best friends, of course it goes without saying that they can always stay in my place, anytime. And I’ll be the one who offer them first… What’s the point of staying in a hotel if you have your best friend living in that city?

Having the whole apartment for myself, I don’t mind having friends staying over for a few days. In fact, it feels nice to have them around. Living abroad always makes me happy to see my friends back from Jakarta. Reminisce the good old days -- when we’re young (school friends) or when we used to work together (ex-colleagues) or spend every weekends partying together (hangout friends), etc etc… -- I can laugh so loud even my TV once fell off from its place! (it happened, yeah! **lol**)

Until two days ago, I had to think hard on my couches in the living room. What happened? Ok, here's the story...

Over the weekend, I had a friend staying over for 3 days. She is my old friend from Jakarta. She asked me whether she could stay in my place during her stay in Singapore. “Of course”, I said. But, she was bringing a friend, too. A girl on our age. “Sure, no worries”, I said.

So, they stayed in my apartment from Saturday to Monday afternoon. I like her friend, too. The three of us had a good chat before went to bed or in the morning as I didn’t join their never-ending-shopping-walking-along-the-Orchard-Road and not to mention the must visit place for Indonesians shoppers who come to Singapore: IKEA! Hehehe…

Then, on Monday morning, I said goodbye to them before leaving for work. Their flight was sometime in the afternoon, so I wouldn’t have a chance to see them again before they leave. I walked to the bus stop in front of my apartment, said my usual “Good morning, how are you?” greet to the guards who always smile to me every time I pass the huge gate, waited for the bus for a while, then when it arrived, I hoped in, chose a playlist from my ipod and read my book. It was a nice morning and a lovely day. I spent the evening with one of my girlfriends. We went to Orchard Road as I needed to get a dress from one of the shops there (the dress was too long for me, so I asked them to alter it… hehee… yeah yeah, am petite!) and get the book that I’ve ordered from Borders Bookstore. Had dinner at one of the restaurants in Takashimaya where they have “Durian Fried Rice” in the menu (nope, I didn’t order that as my meal, no matter how I love the fruit, I think durian fried rice is just too weird) then went straight home.

And here’s where it started. As soon as I opened the door, I smelled gas!!! My whole apartment filled with gas!! Oh my goodness… what’s happening? I ran into the kitchen and checked the stove. There I found, one of the buttons was still on and I could hear the sound of the gas coming out of it. “What the *&%$#@#!!*...”, I thought. I turned it off then opened all windows and doors, turned on the AC and fan to the max.

I sat on my couch, still in shocked. The whole apartment was still filled with gas. I tried to digest everything and tried to calm myself. I was so pissed off but couldn’t mad to anyone. I realized how dangerous it was… the whole apartment could turn into fire if someone lit matches… or if there was still fire in the stove! I tried hard not to think of what would happen if there was a fire… what would I say to my landlord??? Holly molly… I couldn’t imagine!!

I texted my friend and told her what happened. She had arrived safely in Jakarta after a long hour of traffic jam. She said that she didn’t turn on the stove, so it must’ve been her friend who forgot to turn off the button. My goodness…She apologized. I was still speechless…

So, there I was… sitting alone on my coach, inhaling the smell of gas that isn’t my favorite smell at all – unlike my vanilla aromatherapy one --, trying to cool myself down. Then suddenly I remember a sms from a friend that I received earlier in the afternoon. She wanted to borrow some money from me. I would happily lend her the money, but this time, I was confused. Why? It was because once she borrowed a certain amount of money from me and promised to return it within a week. But, months after months, she kept on delaying it. And lucky her, I’m a forgetful person and I’m not the type of person who will chase you to the end. I think, everyone should take responsibility for everything they do. Or, I expect them to act like one. However, in the end, she returned the money to me, after a couple of months.

So, that afternoon, I didn’t know what to do. I turned to my colleague who was sitting next to me and asked her what would she do if she were on my shoes. She said, “Don’t lend it. Full stop”.
I had to think for a couple of minutes before replying to the sms. Had to think hard on how to put it nicely on writing. Money and friendships are two things that are not supposed to be mixed. Both are very sensitive. Sometimes you make a great juice out of it, but on the opposite, it could turn out to be a sour juice that would make you vomit. Always be very careful with these two ingredients.
So, in the end, I just sent a simple text, “Hey girl, sorry, I can’t help you this time…” It was very hard for me to write those words. I hate saying NO to people as much as I dislike people saying no to me. Hehehe..

But, to my surprise, her response was very light: “It’s ok, Nil… no worries”. Hue? As simple as that? I was expecting a dramatic response.. but, nope, it didn’t happen. I was so relief. I was worried that my friend would mad at me and felt hesitate to contact me again in the future. I guess (and I hope) it would not happen…

There I was…alone, in my living room, realizing that these two incidents that happened to me today had taught me a lesson: I should learn to say "NO" to friends. I think the Big Boss Up There wanted me to learn this subject. And I thanked Him for the “small” teaser – the leaking gas from the open stove incident. I thanked Him that He was so nice not to let any bad thing happened to my apartment. So, next time, I would be very careful in selecting who are eligible to stay in my apartment. If she is bringing another friend that I don’t know, then I would have to say “NO”. I just can’t imagine the risk that I have to deal with if something bad happen to a place where I live. It’s just too big.. and am sure a simple “NO” would not hurt…

So dear friends, I’ve got my lesson today. If I ever say NO to you… please understand that there must be some logical reasons behind it. I still love you and am still your friend.. :) And am sure it also works the other way around :). With love, xxx